What is long and hard, and filled with baboon references? Robert Sapolskys book Behave.
📝 “The frontal cortex makes you do the harder thing, when it’s the right thing to do.” The frontal cortex consumes a lot of energy which makes your willpower limited. Have you noticed how quick you are to judge and how hard it is to be a good person you are when depleted after a hard day at work?
📝 Initially demanding frontal tasks, like controlling your bladder as a child, becomes easier with time. Understand: repeated good behaviors and they will become automatic!
📝 We Habituate..
Understand: Artificial pleasures (designer food, drugs, VR porn etc..) throws our systems of the scale making us unable to appreciate the natural.
📝 Humans delays gratification for an extremely long time. No other animal restricts calories now to look good on the beach next year! 😆
📝 “The opposite of love is not hate, its indifference”
📝 Win-Win solutions rewards more dopamine than Win – Lose ones. 👍🏻👍🏻
📝 Alcohol = more aggressive behavior? No, alcoholic only evokes aggression in people prone to aggression AND people that BELIEVE that alcohol makes you more aggressive. Like testosterone only increase aggression in people prone to it in the first place. Testosterone will enhance any behavior that helps us maintain status.
⭐️ TAKEAWAY: I was applying for days off at work. I was going to ask right before lunch, but caught myself and did it the proper way instead; Judges famously give harsher judgments when they are hungry. I upped my chances of getting an approved application quickly by waiting until after lunch.
This was not a matter of life or death situation, like the case with some trials, but I think this story points towards something worth thinking about.
What is the result of a lifetime of strategic moves based on the quirks of biology and human nature works compared to a life ignorant of these hidden influences?
⚖️ VERDICT: A detailed and nuanced summary of where we are at with the study of human behavior! 😍
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